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Sunday, April 28, 2019

Reverse Culture Shock from Being an Expat in South Korea




When I go home to Southern California for vacation after living for so many years in South Korea, I always get a dose of reverse culture shock when I stay there for 1-2 weeks. This time was no different and I would like to share some of them with you and see if you experienced the same things!

1. Small talk. Americans are friendly and when you go shopping, store clerks will always ask if you have their store card so you can get discounts or get on their mailing list. When I tell them I'm not living in the country at the moment, they ask me where I live. Once I tell them I live in South Korea, they get interested. My wife and I were in a clothing store and she decided to buy a couple of shirts. When I told the teenage girl that I lived in Korea, she got excited. Apparently, she had a fascination of Korean culture and actually tried to learn Korean due to her being a major fan of K-Pop. Then she said that she wanted to teach in Korea like I was and live in Gangnam (of course I told her that it was extremely expensive to live there). She must have talked about this dream for 10 minutes!

2. Huge food portions. Whether it be an American breakfast or a burrito, with rice beans, and salad, the portions are out of this world. I love food, so yes it was enjoyable for awhile. But after awhile, when you hang out with family or friends on vacation, and the meals pile up, you can gain weight and feel stuffed on a consistent basis. If you're hungry after eating at a restaurant in California, then it's your fault!

3. Driving is a breeze in L.A. compared to Seoul. I don't drive in Korea and I will avoid it as long as possible. What's the main reason? People are so impatient in Seoul. As a pedestrian, I see it all of the time. Drivers block intersections, honk if someone isn't moving 2 seconds after the light turns green, or drive through red lights because they're constantly in a hurry. While I was in L.A. I think I heard three or four honks in the two weeks I was there. In Seoul, you'll hear someone honk their horn every other minute. On top of that, people will wait for you to cross the street even before you get to the curb. It was nice to see people being polite on the road and I definitely miss that!

4. People in Seoul live a very busy lifestyle. For some reason, if you're not keeping busy doing something, you always feel like you're wasting your time. In Seoul, I always feel guilty if I haven't read my Bible, studied Korean, exercised, and read a book all in one day. When I get to L.A., I feel very relaxed. I tend to go to bed earlier, watch TV a lot more, and things just happen at a much slower pace than in Seoul. But that's the danger of it. You can easily get lazy and not do any of the important things that I mentioned above.

5. My wife noticed that the cost of fruit, vegetables, canned goods, and other groceries in general were much cheaper in Southern California than in Seoul. She commented that she could easily cook if she lived in America. One of my favorite snacks is nuts. Nuts are still very costly in Seoul because they have to import them to Korea. My aunt used to send me a box filled with 4-5 bags of nuts in my first year of Korea as care packages. I miss that.

Overall, both places are great and have their pros and cons. I will always be a California guy and I definitely plan to retire there if possible, but Seoul has been good to me. It's definitely my second home! If you have anything you would like to share about "reverse culture shock", feel free to leave a comment! I'd love to hear your experiences!

Scott Worden (The L.A./Seoul Guy)
Instagram: l.a.seoulguy

Wednesday, March 27, 2019

Sermon: "Crown of Thorns, Crown of Victory" by Pastor Andrew Gu




Mark 15:16-20


Before Jesus is to be crucified, he's led into the Governor's quarter. About 500 soldiers are called in after Jesus has already been beaten. These people mocking Jesus for being "The King of the Jews" were doing it in the king's palace. He was dressed in purple which symbolized royalty. It's doubtful that it was real purple since real purple was expensive. It was probably a faded scarlet robe. Then they put a crown of thorns on him and mocked him by kneeling and saying "Hail! King of the Jews!". Next, they "honor" him by hitting him with a reed and spit on him again and again (NIV). After that, they put on his regular clothes so that he can be crucified. Finally they "worshipped" him. It's highly insulting since Jesus deserves ALL of our worship and they gave him a fake and insulting kind of worship.

What about us? We call him "king" but we insult him with the way that we worship Him. We are no better than these soldiers. When things don't go the way that we want, we rid ourselves of Him. Just because we bow, wear nice clothes, and show it outwardly, that doesn't mean that we are really worshipping Him. Are we showing halfhearted worship and obedience?

Jesus did nothing wrong and even Pilate knew this (vs. 14) or in John's account "not guilty". He said "What wrong has he done?" He had done nothing but heal people and do good for them. Yet Jesus doesn't fight back. Why not? Jesus was on a mission (Isaiah 50). There was a huge problem: our sin and our rebellion towards God. God's way is always better. Something was wrong in the world. The soldiers were saying Jesus was weak, not worthy, and a fake king. Yet what they were doing was that he was actually worthy ironically.

He came to rescue us because we needed rescuing (Galatians 3:13). Jesus willingly subjected himself to abuse and mockery for our behalf. It's a triumphant endurance (Spurgeon). Thankfully it isn't the low point of the story. It's the climax. This is the story of redemption and sacrifice. His death is not a defeat. It's the victory. The crown is not just used to symbolize royalty. It symbolized victory.

Scott Worden (The L.A./Seoul Guy)
Instagram: l.a.seoulguy

Sunday, March 10, 2019

Changgyeonggung Palace at Night in Pictures (Seoul, South Korea)

In 2018, evening visits to Changgyeonggung Palace were only offered at special times. However, beginning this year you can visit there from 9:00am until 9:00pm from Tuesday until Sunday and the latest time that you can be admitted in is at 8:00pm. Please note that the palace is closed on Mondays.

Here are some pictures that I took with my wife last year. The place is underrated since everyone talks about Gyeongbokgung Palace and not many tourists know about this one. It's not that huge, but you can expect to spend about an hour here.


The entrance


Outer courtyard


The center of the temple


A full moon





A woman is taking pictures in a traditional Korean outfit called a "hanbok"














Exiting out of the temple


Cost: Adults= W1,000; Aged 7-18= W500; For children under 6, senior citizens over 65 years old, and those wearing a hanbok= FREE.
Hours: See above
Address: 185 Changgyeonggung-ro, Jongro-gu, Seoul
Directions: Hyehwa Station (Seoul, Subway Line 4), Exit 4. Walk for approximately 15 minutes.
Website: cgg.cha.go.kr (Korean, English, Japanese, Chinese)
Inquiries: +82-2-762-4868 (Korean only)
1330 Korea Travel Hotline: +82-2-1330 (Korean, English, Japanese, Chinese, Russian, Malay, Vietnamese, and Thai language available)


Scott Worden (The L.A./Seoul Guy)
Instagram: l.a.seoulguy

Thursday, February 21, 2019

Things to Be Aware of Before Teaching in South Korea


Photo courtesy of goabroad.com


Before you teach abroad in a foreign country, there is some information that you must know before arriving in that country. Within that country there are some risks you will take as well. Some people take safety risks (Saudi Arabia) for more money. Some people sacrifice horrible weather for more money (Russia), some sacrifice money for a laid back lifestyle (South America), and almost everyone has to adapt to culture shock (everywhere).

Today, I would like to only focus on South Korea because I've lived here for the past 15 years as an American. I can discuss how the English teaching market has changed in South Korea since 2003. And since I've lived in three different cities in South Korea, I can try to explain how different the experiences are based on where you teach and what you should expect depending on where you live.

Second, I will also focus on the "hakwon" (academy or cram school in English) industry because I've taught at five different hakwons. My experience can help those that are looking for jobs in that particular industry. It wouldn't be fair to comment on public school teaching jobs or university positions because I've never taught in those industries in South Korea or anywhere else for that matter.

Third, I will try to keep my comments as objective as possible and free from emotionally charged messages. One reason is that I still teach at a hakwon in South Korea and I still enjoy doing what I do. This post is in no way of telling you not to teach English in Korea, it's just a post to let you know what to look out for. Also, since I love job, I wouldn't want the posts to come off damaging to my current workplace. However, I also want to be honest and straight forward as to the disadvantages of teaching English in a hakwon in South Korea.

What to Watch Out for Before You Teach Abroad- Teaching Kids

1. Before you teach in a children's academy, realize that you probably will not get trained if that academy is in a small town in Korea. Usually kindergarten/elementary or elementary/middle school academies are so desperate for teachers in small towns, that they won't even train you. This happened at my first school in Ulsan.

2. Beware if the school is brand new. This was a double whammy for me. My first school in Ulsan was also brand new. It took about three months for the school to get organized. Sometimes I thought I had a break and then realized that I actually had a class or they had me teaching in one classroom, but told me to change classrooms midway through the class. Avoid new schools if at all possible.

3. Expect some level of discrimination based on age or appearance if you are looking to teach in a small town. When I lived in Yangju in 2005, I decided to quit after three months. I had no curriculum and all of the pressure was on me to find what to teach. When I decided to quit, I spent my own money advertising my school to bring in a replacement for me. Many teachers were qualified and had experience and/or Master's degrees. Yet my director wouldn't hire anyone based on the fact that they were either too old or not attractive enough. On the last day, we got into a heated argument and he blamed me for quitting on him. Now that we're in 2019, things have improved, but not completely.

4. In 2003 and 2004, I was a bit of a novelty. Kids would say hello as I walked down the streets of Ulsan, while older people would stare at me. As more non-Koreans moved into the city, the frequency of both decreased. Occasionally, people will stare at me in Seoul these days, but it's mainly by older people. Just be aware that you will come to a mostly homogenous country and if you don't live in a large city like Seoul or Busan, you're bound to stand out especially if you're a person of color.

5. If you are teaching kids in smaller towns, expect them to know very little about the outside world. If you're a teacher, you already have to know what your kids are interested in. This is doubly important if you're teaching to kids in South Korea. Since you're already a "foreigner", they will already feel different from you. They won't know anything about your home country or even a neighboring country. Bridge the gap anyway you can by learning about what music and games they are interested in. Watch some Korean movies or TV shows and you will immediately impress your students. And if you can sing a K-pop song, they'll love you!

6. Make sure you teach at a school that is recognized or isn't too small. I tried working at a smaller academy in my second year in Ulsan. That was a big mistake. I was the only foreign teacher (hated it) and the copy machine always broke down. I also taught 13 straight classes including one hour where I taught the director's two daughters. The other 12 classes were 25 minutes each. It was a bit intense. When I worked in Yangju I had great hours (2pm-8pm), but I taught six classes straight with no breaks and no curriculum. Smaller schools also focus on numbers. The more students they have, the higher chance you will get paid on time. If they're not bringing in the students, your director might delay your salary.

7. Since hakwons focus on numbers, keeping the kids happy is their #1 priority. If the kids don't like you, they tell their parents. The parents then pull their kids out of that academy and find another one. Then you have to balance between games and teaching really well. If you play too many games, they complain. If you teach too much, they complain. Keeping the kids happy isn't easy but it's even harder if you're working at a small school since their attendance means you get paid. I can't stress enough that working at a small academy is a big mistake. Teaching adults isn't much different. If you teach well, great. But more importantly is how the students view you. If they love you, you will get a high student satisfaction score and then the school is happy. If they think you're boring or unapproachable, it doesn't matter how many qualifications you have, the students will request not to have your class. When you teach adults, your smile and character are much more important than your teaching skills.

8. Because numbers are a key priority, the students' welfare will ALWAYS trump the teachers' welfare. It's a fact and will never change no matter which hakwon you work for. If you teach kids, you will be expected to teach if you're sick. In my previous job, I taught adults and had to show up to work despite having "pink eye". If you are working on the split shift and you get sickly ill after your morning classes, you can try to take the evening off but if your manager can't cancel or move your classes, expect to come in. The students might not be able to do their homework, but if they get refunds because they feel too much pressure, expect the homework policy to change in THEIR favor, not yours.

9. If your hakwon stops paying your monthly pension, quit. You pay into it and they are supposed to pay it back into your pension account. It's illegal if they aren't paying into your account and it's also a warning sign that the school is in trouble. If you get any signs that the school is losing students, take a trip to your pension office (NPS) and find out if they're still paying your monthly pension. This happened at my previous adult academy. I had been there for 3 years and things were going well. Then the CEO got greedy and started expanding his business too fast. Then he realized he was losing money. The annual Christmas dinner got canceled, three months later students were telling me that they could no longer park in the building (I later found out they couldn't afford to pay the rent of the building), and then my landlord told me that my school wasn't paying the rent of my apartment. After these three warning signs, I went to check if they were paying my pension. It turned out that they hadn't paid for three consecutive months. I decided to give them a 30-day notice and quit.

10. As Westerners, we are generally independent and we consider work for what it is. But make sure that you at least greet your Korean coworkers or boss each time you come and leave. It may sound silly, but that's what is expected in South Korea. It's a small gesture and it will show that you're adapting to Korean culture. Don't come into work with tunnel vision and head to the teaching materials without saying hello. It's rude and you don't want to come off that way since you want your company to know that you're a good person.

11. Take your job seriously. Sometimes westerners work abroad because they think they're going to have a year of partying and have a teaching job as a side gig to pay for their partying. This usually happens with younger teachers in their early 20s who haven't had much job experience and are very far from their parents. Please don't make us look bad especially if you're an American, since I'm American (smile). You represent our country, so please represent it well!


12. Getting a job in South Korea in 2003 was much more different than it is in 2019. In 2003, if you were a young, white, Westerner (preferably American or Canadian), you got a job if you just had a Bachelor's degree although hard if you were Irish or black. These days, immigration is stricter so you need a Bachelor's degree, a criminal background check, and a lot more experience since there are many non-Koreans compared to 15 years ago. However, it's a little easier for people to get jobs who are British, Australian, black, or South African. Even Asian Americans and Canadians are getting hired now, which was unheard of in 2003.

13. Teaching adults will require a split shift, paying your own rent, and an average salary. If you teach kids, you will get your rent covered so your salary will seem pretty high. If you enjoy teaching kids, that's where the money is at. If you want less stress, teach adults. However, in both situations the director or CEO of the company will change school policies in order to try to bring in revenue. Many times the changes seem ridiculous, but go with the flow. Chances are, they'll realize those changes in policies are silly and they will go back to what they had been doing before.

Scott Worden (The L.A./Seoul Guy)
Instagram: l.a.seoulguy



Thursday, February 7, 2019

The Louvre Museum in Paris, France






If you go to Paris, you must visit the Louvre Museum, or Musee de Louvre in French, which is the world's largest art museum. The Louvre was originally built as a fortress for Philip Augustus in 1190 but was reconstructed into a royal palace by Pierre Lescot, Louis Le Vau, and Claude Perrault on August 10, 1793. In 2018, it received 10.2 million visitors, which was ranked 1st nationally and 1st globally. The museum has a total of 537 paintings. You can read more about the history of the Louvre here.

Review: The museum is extremely huge and there is no way you can conquer this place in one day. I was exhausted after a few hours here and my wife and I barely saw a quarter of it. It's the most visited art museum in the world for a reason and if you go to Paris and miss this place, then you haven't seen Paris.

According to the site walksofitaly.com, here are the top 13 paintings and sculptures that you must see at the Louvre:

1. The Winged Victory of Samothrace
2. Psyche Revived by Cupid's Kiss
3. The Venus de Milo
4. The Raft of the Medusa
5. Liberty Leading the People
6. The Coronation of Napolean
7. Sleeping Hermaproditus
8. Hammurabi's Code
9. I.M. Pei's Pyramid
10. The Lamassu
11. The Dying Slave and the Rebellious Slave
12. Grand Odalisque by Ingres
13. The Mona Lisa


Cost: 9 Euros. If you head there after 6:00pm on a Wednesday or a Friday, then the cost is reduced to 6 euros and the museum is open until 9:45pm. The entrance is free for people under 26 on Friday evenings. On Bastille Day (July 14), and the first Sunday of each month, entrance is free for everyone, all day.


Address: Rue de Rivoli. 75001, Paris, France


Here are a few of my favorite pieces of artwork at the Louvre:

My wife by the window at the Louvre


Liberty Leading the People



The Grand Odalisque by Ingres
This beautiful ceiling reminded me of the Vatican in Rome

The Mona Lisa






















Scott Worden (The L.A. Seoul Guy)
Instagram: l.a.seoulguy